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	Casual Times - Vol. 24, September 2005

How Much Noise Is Too Much?

Have you ever been in the throws of passion and been startled by an unexpected scream from your partner? Did it interrupt your enjoyment or enhance it? Do you have a partner that grunts and groans like he is performing hard labor? Is it distracting, or enticing? How about those who like to whisper dirty little things into your ear during sex? Does it turn you on, or off?

Many people are very vocal during sex. It comes in different degrees. A person can be considered vocal in the way of gasps, whimpers and moans. They could instead be a screamer, a crier or someone who likes to indulge in dirty talk. Others prefer to offer talk about what feels good and what they want their partner to do next.

How much noise is just too much?

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Many couples find it crucial to experience some type of noise during lovemaking. Those strong silent types always can leave a person guessing if we are actually turning them on or not. Other couples don’t have a preference one way or another. It is as personal and everyone is different.

If you are one of the silent types, you might want to consider bringing a little noise into your sex life. Moaning in pleasure, whispering sweet nothings, and offering a little of guidance during sex can enhance your sex life drastically. Your partner knows where they stand, what makes you feel good and you can make your own experience better.

It is kind of like the saying that if you make yourself smile, you will soon find yourself in a better mood. Just like the same, if you make a little noise during sex, you might find yourself more turned on than you ever before.

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Some people find it very difficult though. They are shy, not sure what to say, or just plain afraid that someone will overhear them and think less of them.

That is where music can help. Not only does it enhance the mood of your encounter, a bit of sexy music can also help to keep those intimate sounds where they belong…in your room…not the neighbor’s living room.

Is this a topic that you need to actually discuss with your partner? Well, it depends on your situation. If you simply want to bring a little more spice into your sex life, you can simply start small and whisper something dirty into your lover's ear and see what happens. Or maybe you can try telling your partner what you want them to do next? It is like anything else concerning sex. If you feel you need to talk it out, then do so. If you would rather whisper something sexy and surprise your lover, then that is the way to go.

Regardless of your vocal level, it is important to know that if you are experiencing intimacy, enjoying yourself and pleasing your partner, then there is no right or wrong answer here. Just be yourself and have fun!

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